Obituary for Charles A. Furman (Guest book)

Message from Ada love

March 1, 2024 3:24 PM

Never could forget our love

A candle was lit by Ada Love on March 1, 2024 3:22 PM

Message from Ada Love

November 6, 2023 3:35 PM

Hard to forget you

A candle was lit by By the Love Family, RIP 2021 on November 22, 2021 11:36 PM

A candle was lit by Mrs. LOVE amd Family on June 5, 2018 4:32 PM

Message from Mrs Ada Love

June 5, 2018 4:30 PM

I'm here once again out of respect to you only! Your words live in my ♥ forever SO will my love for you, our love was crazy to us but true only GOD knows our ♥ he is our Judge Amen.RIP my Dear friend! Sincerely your Beloved

A candle was lit by LOVE Family63 on June 4, 2018 4:38 PM

Message from LOVE Family

June 4, 2018 4:35 PM

Another year in a few days That you been gone. No matter what is going on the LOVE Family, your thought off and greatly missed to bad life is so short on this 🌍! Sincerely the LOVE Family

Message from LOVE Family

June 4, 2018 4:35 PM

Another year in a few days That you been gone. No matter what is going on the LOVE Family, your thought off and greatly missed to bad life is so short on this 🌍! Sincerely the LOVE Family

A candle was lit by Ada Love and Family on May 21, 2018 9:36 PM

A candle was lit by Ada love on May 4, 2018 1:07 AM

A candle was lit by Mrs Ada Love on March 19, 2018 2:52 PM

A candle was lit by Mrs Ada Love on March 18, 2018 7:32 PM

A candle was lit by Mrs Ada Love on March 12, 2018 4:25 PM

Message from Mrs Ada Love

February 28, 2018 7:06 PM

There was great times we shared in love that is speacial only to me and you Rest in peace my love 😍

A candle was lit by Mrs Ada Love on February 28, 2018 6:54 PM

Message from Niki nik

February 10, 2018 9:25 PM

Hey daddy as im sitting here tonight looking at your grand babies while they watch a movie you came to mind i cant get over how much alex resembles you everyone calls him chuckie jr lol everything about him reminds me soo much of you the way he talks walks just his personality sometimes i cant help but to cry when i look at him and your baby boy aiden daddy he weighs 140 pounds already hes getting so big he always talks about you landon yesterday whom you never got to meet saw your picture on my fireplace and said whos that mommy hes only 3 and never met you so i told him thats your grandpa he is mommys daddy and he said call grandpa and i couldnt help but to break down and cry because i couldnt what i would do and give just to hear tour voice one last time and wrap my arms around you daddy you are still keeping our family together even though your not here with us physically you are mentally emotionally and in our hearts and everytime one of us girls get into an argument we end making up an hour later telling eachother we are all we have daddy has always told us no matter what your sisters are your everything and they are your family always be there for one another and we have been theres so much i want to tell you and ask your advice but i cant it hurts so much still theu say it gets easier as the years go by but it doesnt it gets harder i think I LOVE YOU DADDY AND MISS YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING I KNOW YOUR IN HEAVEN SINGING AND DANCING LIVING LIFE UP THERE TO THE FULLEST R.I.P DADDY FLY HIGH LOVE ALWAYS YOUR BABY GIRL NIKI NIK

A candle was lit by Niki nik on February 10, 2018 9:13 PM

Message from Randa

November 28, 2017 10:42 PM

Your grandbabies are getting soo big dad!!! The boys are all turning into amazing young men, shit Nate is taller than me now smh. Bet that made you laugh, its not saying much since im a "midget" 😂 kayleigh starts kindergarten in September.it's crazy how fast Times flyin by. Mel is such a sweetie, she definitely has our Furman curls lol. Weve all had an interesting couple years. Between all the kids starting new schools, crazy family memories like kayaking and everything together amongst other thing's I won't list hahaha. We even survived rabies (long story) lol and Nate even had lyme disease. We've all tried to stay positive throughout some rough patches we've had for the most part and have been sticking together. I wish more but I'm just happy us girls have a relationship with each other and the kids can grow up playing together. Put all the bullshit aside, Family is always first**as you always said. Not a day goes by that your not in my mind. Some days I can hear you, more lately than before. The other day i repeated one of your jokes to Kayleigh (corny as hell like always lol) and I swear i heard your laughter. It was soothing and brought happiness at first but it also rushed so many other feelings through me. Theres soo many un-answered questions in my mind that it's eating at me. Most nights i just lay here stuck in my thoughts and wonders. It's not fair we didnt have much time to make more memories together.. all of us, its not fair your not here with us watching your grandkids grow, teaching them your jokes and sharing some stories that you've shared with us. You always said life isn't always fair and to be honest I thought I knew what you meant throughout the years but I was wrong . Truthfully these past few years have been rough. Its opened my eyes to a whole new meaning to "life's not fair." I just wish I could have you back, even if it was just for a day, even an hour 😢 I miss you so damn much. The kids bring you up I try not breaking down. I just wish you were still with us. I love you. "My daddy"

A candle was lit by Ada Love on November 28, 2017 2:07 PM

Message from Kevin Brennan and Sue Allen

June 7, 2016 9:30 PM

RIP Chuckie, so sorry we didn't get to Binghamton to see you more. Doesn't seem possible that you have been gone a year now, but hopefully you've had enough time to hook up with Mark Allen, and you two are rockin' and partyin' like the old days. We miss you both very much!

A candle was lit by Kevin Brennan and Sue Allen on June 7, 2016 9:11 PM

A candle was lit by Katrina Furman ❤️ on May 16, 2016 5:31 PM

Message from niki nik

May 11, 2016 10:45 PM

Hey daddy it's almost been a year since you have been gone 2 weeks ago I went to your grave for the first time since we burried you and I brought your grandkids and beaners was there after Trina took the kids I had a melt down daddy I miss you so much and my grieving is getting worse cuz you know me I have to stay strong and not break down but after that day I went to your grave Its getting worse to deal with the fact your gone even tho I was in the room wit you when you left US and I stayed there when you got burried I stayed in denial and I was afraid to go see you because now it's hitting me harder than even daddy I miss you soooo much your all I talk about anymore daddy people keep telling me it's gonna get easier but as the days go it gets harder you were my best friend my daddy my hero my everything and now that your gone I'm lonely and sad and I just want you back your grandson Alex asked me if we could dig you up so he could bring you back to life and I teared up and said Alex hunny you can't do that he said yes I can and argued with me for 35 mins and I told him if it was like that you would of never left us the smile I give is hiding my pain I LOVE YOU DADDY ALWAYS AND FOREVRR WE WILL BE TOGETHER ONE DAY XOXOXOXOXO

A candle was lit by Trina on July 7, 2015 10:58 AM

Message from niki nik aka nikila

July 7, 2015 2:51 AM

Hey daddy it's been one month since uve been gone and I'm lost I miss u and love u soo much I'm going nuts I know ur better now but I'm selfish I want u back I'll do anything just to hold u again I miss ur bear hugs as I wipe away my tears I am trying to think about all of our memories but it's not the same life with out u isn't the same anymore I'm so lost idk what to do I should of never left home I haven't seen u in 5 yrs and when I did u couldn't talk to me I was just watching u day by day getting called home and I regret leaving u I should of never left daddy I'm sorry I'd do anything to have u bk anything I feel like our time together wasn't long enough Come bk to me please they say it gets easier as time goes but.in all honesty it's getting worse 😞😢😢 I know u don't want to see me crying maybe that's y I can't have a breakdown because ur holding me together 😢 I love u to the moon n bk always n forever millions of times n more till we meet again

A candle was lit by niki nik aka nikila on July 7, 2015 2:42 AM

Message from Katrina Furman

July 3, 2015 1:52 AM

Hey daddyo! Missing you like crazy, laying in bed snuggled up with ur pillow and stuffed animal I have. I'm an emotional wreck, questioning over and over again on why you were taken from us. It feels like just yesterday we were joking around and gutting fish laughing while joking with each other. I know you are in a better place now but I'm selfish and I want you back!! I miss you dearly dad! I'll be sure to light it up big for you on the 4th of July. Won't be as good as you do, but I'll try. Love you to the moon and back!! Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

A candle was lit by Trina on July 3, 2015 1:43 AM

Message from nikila

June 30, 2015 9:23 PM

Hey daddy I'm stopping in to tell u how much I love n miss u 😘 ur grandkids talk to u every night I hope u can hear them I know ur having a great time in heaven I love u

A candle was lit by nikila on June 30, 2015 9:21 PM

A candle was lit by Judy Krause RiP Chuckie..I'm So glad we talked last year. on June 18, 2015 11:22 PM

A candle was lit by Jesus Christ Your father in Heaven - Come to me my son, Rest on June 16, 2015 4:38 PM

A candle was lit by Katrina furman on June 16, 2015 1:36 AM

Message from Kelli Sager

June 13, 2015 7:59 PM

R.I.P. Our childhood friend from the farm. It is comforting to know that we will meet again in paradise! Hallelujah

A candle was lit by Diana Belcher-Avery on June 12, 2015 2:32 PM

A candle was lit by Marla Kay Dusharm on June 12, 2015 8:15 AM

Message from Mary/ Davy and "Friends from "Dodge"

June 12, 2015 7:10 AM

Vic and Family,
Our sincere condolences in the passing of your brother, father and loved one. May you remember all the good times, share the stories and smile in his rememberence of his life here.
Friends from "Dodge"

A candle was lit by Mary /Davy andFriends from "Dodge" on June 12, 2015 7:04 AM

A candle was lit by Heart on June 12, 2015 1:29 AM

A candle was lit by Patrick green on June 11, 2015 11:49 PM

Message from Chenango Forks

June 11, 2015 11:16 PM

So much has been endured and also enjoyed in our lives Chuck, In all the good times we found happy memories and in the bad we found hard lessons. Up until now we survived, sometime on the strength of family and sometimes alone. You often told me you loved me Chuck as I did you, and yet I did not give into the weaknesses of your demons as I know for the last few years with us, you were fighting them with all your might. You personally knew Jesus Chuck and often spoke of his love for you, "but" the devil had a grip on you and tried to steal your soul and I am happy to say that while you were in the hospital for the last time, I was there with you tears in my eyes and my heart broken to lose another brother so soon, The nurses told me you might be conscious so I asked for a moment alone. I took your hand and your eyes opened as you looked in my direction, I told you where you were and that I thought you may be in trouble this time, your hand tightened on mine and I knelt besides you as best as I could. I whispered in your ear to pray with me Chuck and you with all the tubes in your mouth could not speak, but gripped my hand tighter. Dear Lord I prayed we are sinners here before you and we accept you in our hearts as our Lord and savior and asked that the holy spirit ascend upon us and prepare us for the after life through our faith and your promise as in John 3:16. I said Amen and immediately after Chuck you squeezed my hand hard 3 times, It was the way we use to tell eachother that "I love You" when we were not aloud to talk as kids being punished. It was when you squeezed my hand 3 times Chuck that I knew you had prayed with me, heard me, and that someday I will see you again in our fathers paradise.
Amen Brother,
Till we have that Family reunion in the heavens

Message from Miranda

June 12, 2015 12:31 AM

I love you uncle victor, this brought me to tears 💜

A candle was lit by Lisa Warner on June 11, 2015 7:37 PM

Message from erin suggs

June 11, 2015 5:12 PM

Im so sorry to you girls for your loss, your dad was a good friend to me and helped me out quite a bit in the last few months. I also lost my dad a couple years ago so I can sympathize with how difficult it is. If there's anything I can do or if there's anything you need, call me or stop by.

A candle was lit by Erin & Jon on June 11, 2015 5:03 PM

A candle was lit by Daniel Campoli on June 11, 2015 2:19 PM

Message from Dan Campoli

June 11, 2015 2:09 PM

I am very sorry to hear of your loss, my God Bless.

Message from Jane (Helmer) Stuart

June 11, 2015 11:07 AM

God will watch over you now.
Jane (Helmer) Stuart

Message from Jimmy Mauro

June 11, 2015 9:29 AM

My condolences go out to Chuck's children and entire family. I was shocked to read what happened to Chuck. We had reconnected in 2014 on Facebook after not seeing one another in 35 years. Chuck and I went through grade school. Junior High, and high school together. Even though it has been a long time, it seems like just yesterday. Chuck was a great guy. May he rest in peace.

Message from Binghamton

June 11, 2015 7:26 AM

I ran into him at the convenience store up the street from my home. It had been about 7 years since I had seen him. We knew each other in dark and light times of our lives. A Binghamtonian and a friend. I am sorry this happened to a man who survived some harsh times and thrived in the light. My heart is heavy this morning. I pray fro his family. He will be missed.

Message from Charisse Gallagher

June 11, 2015 4:31 AM

So very sorry for your loss.

Message from David and Brittany

June 11, 2015 2:10 AM

We will always remember Chuck for his free spirit and positive energy. He always found a way to make anybody smile with his autonomous sense of humor. The thing I liked the most about Chuck was how he was always singing. He had great taste in music too. Chuck will be missed very much, may he rest in peace~

Message from niki nik ur baby girl

June 11, 2015 1:51 AM

Daddy here it.is 1:43 am and I still can't sleep I wanna call u and talk to u like I use to u meant the world to me I don't have to tell u that u already knew that u held my heart the day I laid eyes on u no matter what u have always been my super hero and Damn daddy I really hope I have ur genes u r one strong man u faught strong up until u took ur last breath I lay here daddy wondering y I can't scream and cry my insides r getting torn into pieces that's what it feels like I lost my heart the day u passed..daddy who's going to hear my scream and cry at 3 am???!!!! Tell u how much I was tired and I wanted to come home or when I just a 10 min break u answered my calls no matter what u were doing I love and miss u so much I don't even know. How to explain this to aiden and Alex 😞😞 good night daddy until we meet again xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

A candle was lit by ur baby girl niki nik!!! on June 11, 2015 1:43 AM

A candle was lit by Brittany Nicole Smith on June 11, 2015 1:20 AM

A candle was lit by David L. Traver on June 11, 2015 1:20 AM

Message from jerry lacey

June 11, 2015 12:01 AM

R.I.P chuckie you were a fun guy and tho I didnt know you well, I was glad to know you at all

A candle was lit by Brother Vic on June 10, 2015 11:11 PM

Message from Rene Ramsay

June 10, 2015 10:57 PM

Chuck sent me a note a few months back, sending his regards to our family. He said he was happy and blessed with a good family. It was nice to hear from an old friend. My condolence to his family and loved ones. May he rest in peace.
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Message from Barb and Jeff Patinka

June 10, 2015 10:44 PM

Miranda and family...We are so sorry that you girls have to go through losing your dad at such a young age ...our thoughts and prayers are with you all ...we new Chuck from back in middle school and he was always smiling...he loved you all very much! God bless and remember time heals all wounds.....if you need anything please let us know

A candle was lit by Marie Toman,,,,,so long dear Chuckie, RIP on June 10, 2015 9:45 PM

A candle was lit by linda brennan on June 10, 2015 7:50 PM

Message from Katrina Furman pomales

June 10, 2015 7:41 PM

The hardest thing in life I have ever done is say goodbye to my father, he was such an amazing and fun person to be around, he always made others laugh and was so great at cheering people up when they were down. I have millions of great memories that I will cherish forever, I am so glad that the last time you had a blast was with me Miranda and our friends! You definitely made us all laugh and you sure made me so happy. I miss you dad more than words could ever explain, I know that you are in a better place now but me being selfish just wants you back here with me and my sisters laughing, fishing, enjoying a bonfire and spending time with each other. To others you are gone but to me you are still here right next to me laughing at me because I'm being a little girl and crying lol as you would have said. Just know how much I love you and how much you really meant and still do mean to me!!!! I love you dad!! ❤️

A candle was lit by Katrina Furman pomales on June 10, 2015 7:33 PM

A candle was lit by Kim Robbins & Dick Layton on June 10, 2015 6:54 PM

Message from Tony Williams Waterbury Conn

June 10, 2015 6:24 PM

My condolences to all of you during this difficult time. I first met Chuck at West Jr in the early 70s and hung out together later in life.Solid man with a heart of gold once he warmed up to you.He touched many hearts with kindness and a few jaws as well.Always a loyal friend. Sleep well Chuckie.You will be missed.

A candle was lit by Gary Skiba and Family on June 10, 2015 4:56 PM

A candle was lit by michaelcrooks on June 10, 2015 3:59 PM

Message from Terry Burns

June 10, 2015 1:49 PM

I am so sorry to hear about Chuckie passing. My deepest sympathy to the whole family. Sending prayers to all of you...

A candle was lit by mary and stephen yanus on June 10, 2015 1:11 PM

A candle was lit by tina smith (letavish) on June 10, 2015 12:00 PM

A candle was lit by Lori T. (Marla's friend) on June 10, 2015 11:16 AM

Message from Kathy DiFulvio...Florida

June 10, 2015 11:10 AM

So sorry for your loss...I remember Chuckie from the neighborhood...So sorry for the loss for your family... To loose Bobby then Chuckie so close together must be so hard.

Message from Eric

June 10, 2015 10:41 AM

You will be missed buddy..... wish I had stayed closer in the last few years.... You are at peace now my friend.....My Prayers to the Family....

Message from David Patinka family N.C.

June 10, 2015 8:16 AM

Praying for the family,great memories of Chuck. RIP

Message from Binghamton NY

June 10, 2015 8:13 AM

So sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace and forever be in your hearts.

Diedre

Message from Endicott,n.y.

June 10, 2015 5:30 AM

So sorry for your loss.Went to school together.Peace an Love always.Lori Lake

Message from Angel

June 10, 2015 4:15 AM

well... All I can say is thank you Charles for bringing three amazing woman into this world and my life. They have my heart. I'm so sorry girls for your loss And I love you Katrina. You're dad knows you guy's loved him very much and I'm sure you know he loved u guys right back. It's hard but I seen the strength and I'm proud to be around it and know ur dad would be proud. I wish I can do more to help ease the pain. AGAIN IM SORRY

A candle was lit by Angel pomales on June 10, 2015 4:07 AM

Message from Beverlee

June 10, 2015 2:04 AM

My deepest condolence girls loosing a parent is one of the hardest things life throws at you. The hardest thing I felt with when my mother passed was the thought of my daughter getting older and not remembering who she was or better yet how much she loved us !! I'm so sorry girls and I'm hear to talk if u need to. God called another angel "the good die young " niki remeber when we were really young at ur dad's house and we were all dancing to Spanish music lol always remeber the good !! I love u guys hold ur heads up most importantly keep his legacy ongoing let the grand baby's know what a awesome man he was!!!!!!

Message from lisa franks johnson

June 10, 2015 12:55 AM

Chuck I've known u for many years rest in peace my condolences to the family as well

A candle was lit by jessica morsey on June 10, 2015 12:27 AM

Message from Jessica morsey

June 10, 2015 12:27 AM

im sorry guys stay strong and help eachother threw this

A candle was lit by Ellen on June 9, 2015 10:28 PM

Message from Sheila Davis Zufelt

June 9, 2015 10:11 PM

I'm so very sorry to hear of all of our loss especially his family. My heart, thoughts and prayers goes out to all of you. i have known Chuck for well over 38 years. He was sure something else then and i am glad he kept it up. I know now, he is not suffering and is in good hands and will be with all of us as he is now our angel to watch over all of us and he is smiling down on us all. I'm just so so sorry n my heart goes out to all. You have your faith to help get you through this.
Sincerely,
Sheila

Message from Miranda Furman

June 9, 2015 11:36 PM

Thank you, 💙

Message from Evelyn Cortina

June 9, 2015 9:55 PM

My condolences to the Furman family, may God help you in your most difficult moments in life, and may your dad rest in peace in the place he belongs next to the Angels in heaven.

A candle was lit by Sheila Davis Zufelt on June 9, 2015 9:51 PM

A candle was lit by Evelyn Cortina on June 9, 2015 9:48 PM

Message from Sherri Kurtz

June 9, 2015 9:33 PM

he sounds like a wonderful man with such a full, dear life!!!! I'm so sorry for your loss! This is a beautiful obit. You are all in my prayers!

Message from Terri & Jim Connolly

June 9, 2015 9:16 PM

Sending our most sincere condolences to the family. I hope the family finds peace in this very difficult time.

Message from Rochester, NY

June 9, 2015 9:09 PM

So long to a kind and gentle man who always had good intentions but who loved to party. Chuck frequently talked about his beautiful daughters and his regrets about not having spent more time with them. He truly loved you, girls. Keep the positive memories close to your hearts.

Message from Miranda Furman

June 9, 2015 11:40 PM

That he did, he charished us girls and I wish we had more time. 😢 I would go to lunch with him or anywhere for that matter and he always knew someone that'd he introduce us to and they'd say he loved us so much and always talked about us. I miss him so much

A candle was lit by Sue Gill-Dean RIP. Chuck on June 9, 2015 8:59 PM

Message from Miranda Furman

June 9, 2015 8:57 PM

I love you so much dad, you were always smiling no matter what, you loved us so much and charished the moments you had with us. You'll always be in my heart 💜love, fran

A candle was lit by Miranda Furman on June 9, 2015 8:52 PM

Message from Yvonne Hoover

June 9, 2015 8:51 PM

I have known Chuck for over 20 years. Always a gentlemen.
Sending my condolences to his family.

Message from Jessica and Kevin

June 9, 2015 8:37 PM

We are very sorry about the loss of your father! We're sending lots of love, strength, and prayers to you! If there is anything you need at all please let us know! Chuck was a great man and I'm so happy we got to meet him and got to know him in such a short time! We know that he will shine and rock on in heaven just as much as he did here on earth with us! We know that he's so proud of his family and that even though he's not with us anymore he will find a way to make you know that's he still watching you from up above and how proud he will always be of you all! He will always find a way to let you know he is still with you and he will rock on!!

A candle was lit by ray sessions on June 9, 2015 8:35 PM

Message from Kevin Harty

June 9, 2015 8:29 PM

my heart goes out to the family and friends of chuck I'm glad I got to hang out and party with you the weekend before and showed everyone a great time your a great guy thank you for everything rip chuck👼

Message from Miranda

June 9, 2015 9:00 PM

Thank you kev, I'm glad you guys got to meet him.

A candle was lit by Kevin Harty on June 9, 2015 8:27 PM

A candle was lit by Jessica and Kevin on June 9, 2015 8:23 PM

Message from anne and Joe in kissimmee, florida

June 9, 2015 8:04 PM

chuck we knew you as friend and neigbor and we know the girls when they were small and now they have grown tall and families of their own. Their hearts are broken but remember we are all here for them, meranda, nikki, and katrina. We live in kissimmee, Florida now but we have all our memories you will be sadly missed. Our hearts and prayers are with you, if you need to get a hold of us we can be reached on facebook or messenger. Rest in peace Chuck until we meet again

Anne and Joe Dickinson and family

Message from Miranda Furman

June 9, 2015 9:00 PM

Thank you 💙

A candle was lit by i am very sorry for your loss. May he R.I.P. Laura on June 9, 2015 7:47 PM

Message from Nancy Bell-Szwalla

June 9, 2015 7:42 PM

Condolences too you and your family. Hearts and tears.

Message from nikila Vazquez

June 9, 2015 9:29 PM

Thank u so much

A candle was lit by Heidi M Ranger on June 9, 2015 7:12 PM